It takes much self control and discipline to be able to esteem others as better than ourselves and to forgive all manner of evil done against us. About the time you feel you've mastered a particular difficulty, pride or lust will be waiting to show you again just how imperfect you really are.

Recognizing our imperfection doesn't mean we are to hopelessly live there. We look to the author and finisher of our faith to supply what we need to journey through the difficulties and continue to build up the body of Christ. Our ultimate purpose and destination are more important than this day's burden or bump in the road. This bump might be the unruly tongue of an immature believer or the thoughtless unChristlike action taken by one or more family members. Covey states that effectiveness in a family is a beautiful family culture that has moved from "me" to "we." It is another demonstration of the selflessness and sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Be ever so careful to discover what steps may be taken to support, love, and minister to one another.

Pray for those in your local church family, but not "God, change them or make them thus and so." Instead pray for the one you know best, that YOU will be teachable in God's hands to be a blessing, encouragement, and help to those around you. With more of us praying in this fashion we are certain to more often be on track than off.